Monday, April 02, 2007

Whose seat is it anyway?


I was in Bangalore last weekend and I happened to travel on a K.S.R.T.C bus from Shivaji Nagar to Jalahalli West. The bus was jam-packed, but luckily(or unluckily) I managed to grab a seat - the one in the leftmost corner of the last row! You know the type that would make you do a "Saif", a la movie Dil CHahta Hai.
While I was struggling to hold on to the window rod and remain seated, I overheard some altercation going on couple of rows in front of me.

The Issue-> "A pretty young damsel had ventured into the unreserved area of the bus and had sinned by taking a seat there"
The Aggrieved Party-> "A mob of ,what I will hereon refer to as, grumpy old men"
The Complaint-> The girl had breached the code of conduct by venturing out to the non reserved are and had the audacity to sit when so many grumpy old men were fighting for a seat."
The Judge-> "The Conductor who did not seem to understand the Kanglish (A biased mix of Kannada and English) that the girl was uttering."
The Jury-> "The onlookers, which included me, who kept straining their necks to glance at the lass and then at the conductor and then at the aggrieved party as though watching a 3 way Table Tennis."

Case shuru kiya jaye!!!!
The grumpy old men kept on compaining to the conductor that the girl had encroached upon their right to rest their sorry asses on the cushionless seats to the 'ever so slow' moving bus.
The defendant pleaded 'Not Guilty!'. She said that there are only 2 types of reservation on the bus.
- Reservation for the Ladies
- Reservation for the Handicapped
She cried that there was nothing called as Men's Reservation on the bus and that anyone could be seated on the no reserved seats.

I nodded in consent, but quietly stopped when I saw the grumpy old me staring at me disapprovingly as though I had committed some loathsome crime.
The judge (Mr. Conductor) who did not understand even a single word what the defendant had to say, expanded his chest and announced the verdict. The defendant had been found guilty as charged! She was ordered to vacate the seat and move towards the front of the bus where her rightful place was!
I stared in silence as she rose up, a tiny drop of tear in her eyes. I hated myself for not having the courage to stand by what I felt was right. I could see the satisfaction on the grumpy old men's face. Everyone was beaming!
I rose up to beckon her and offer her my seat! By the time I could push my face out from the crowd to call her, she had somehow managed to move to the front of the bus. I turned back to return to my seat, but that was taken too.....
I am eager to hear your thoughts on this?
Whose seat is it anyway?
Cheers,
TLT
P.S> Based on a few comments that I received, I need to publish a slight clarification here before you pass any judments. The term Grumpy old men used in the above post is not a true indicative of the age. I consider myself, all of 26 years, quite old! The aggrieved party's age was not more than late 30s.

10 comments:

Cyberkitty said...

Sad that man was making so much fuss ... the seat always belongs to the person who caught it first !

Life Lover said...

logically the seat belongs to the person who sat there first...but two things here...one, there was a reserved women's seating on the bus at the front end, she could have gone there and two, when an old person is asking for a seat, isn't it a young person's duty to give it to them? they need it more than someone who is young and healthy...just my two cents, though ofcourse as a young guy you would feel the young lass is the aggrieved one and I agree with you about your stance :)

Anonymous said...

agreeing with the above comment from life lover

the old man could also have sat beside the young woman...(hope the girl was really beautiful)

this is perhaps an (non-volatile)example for the how reseveration actually reflects on the people behaviour....

Rosh said...

#Cyberkitty : Thanks for voicing your opinion.

#LifeLover and anonymous : Both of you say that it's a youth's responsibility to make sure that elders get all they need. Probably in this case the gal should have offered him her seat.
One point to note here is that the old man was not an OLDDDDDD Man, if you know what I mean.
They were just in their 30s.
Do you both still feel the same?

Also, anonymous, I totally agree with you that it's the idea of reservation that is messing up with the people's behaviour. The reservations, save the bare minimum, should be totally removed.

Strider said...

it seems preposterous that a grumpy young man should behave in such a manner!!

having travelled in BMTC(which is a city cousin of KSRTC) busses for a long time I thought I had seen it all, par nahi!

Rai said...

I somewhat agree with "lifelover" ... logically the seat belongs to the person who sat there first.

And since I don't find any rationale behind reservation seats in bus, I would say that this man shouldn't have created so much hue and cry about the issue.

But I have one more thing to point ... if this same man would have found himself a seat in the women's section, I bet, the public rage would have been greater ...

So, it's not about old men vs. a young girl ... it's about rules we set for ourselves, vioalting them and then again trying to justify what we have done.

Anonymous said...

Hey Hii,
I had a laugh at the first half f the post! But you know what! Didnt feel that much pity for the defendent...ok this may seem odd comin frm a girl herself...but you know I have seen grumpy old females ( literal sense of your grumpy old men) who have made people get up from the ladies seat in an ever insulting way when the person sitting was in more need of the seat than them...

Loved your style of writing...

:) :)
preetha!

Rosh said...

#Rai : Long time! Welcome back!
But, you are absolutely right. It is us who is to blame for all the chaos in the world.
God never intended it this way.

#Preetha : Hello ji ;-)I have also wintnessed one such incident and that too in Kerala (almost 10 years back)

Syed Siddique Sharaf said...

Wow! amazing description

Rosh said...

#Syed : Thanks for your appreciation. Keep in touch!